The observer

While I was in bed I saw a guy watching me from my neighbor´s roof, I was naked and he certainly was enjoying it, I think it was that thing called voyeurism, I quikly cover myself and steped aside of his view, I´m sure it was not his intention to watch, it was an accident, he was working on my neighbor´s roof on that terrible hot morning. Then I realized I don´t like being catch by surprise, I guess I´ll prefer to be the observer if a moment like that repet.

For a "watcher" there will always be a "shower", I´m not telling something new, since the moment we started capturing images from the media we noticed that our world is paved with millions of things based on the old "see-show" play, from reality TV to porn, from private moments of people next door to celebrities, at the bottom line they are all the same. There is a well-paid industry that provide produts that people are willing see.

I think we all have some of voyeurists, the important thing is how we deal with it, I always belived that nothing is bad if we don´t over due to the point of hurting yourself or others, I even think that practincing any of the roles (watcher/shower) can be healthy in some cases, like in some longtime relationships that want to improve their sexual life, with this I´m not encouraging anyone to do it.

When it comes to sexuality, we know we have to be responsables for our actions, and all the "bla blas" that fall from that. Always remember that no matter how many preaches we hear about it, the only thing we need to do is: Respect yourself and respect the others.

Opps!! my boy here let the sliding doors open for us to watch, any invitations?